Leapsa :P

Dupa un pranz copios am decis sa fac ceva foarte placut si relaxant. Asa ca am ales sa citesc posturile noi ale dragilor mei prieteni...si se pare ca m-am procopsit cu o leapsa...si suna cam asa:

"Ia cartea care este cea mai aproape de tine.
Deschide-o la pagina 123.
Găseşte a 5-a propoziţie.
Postează pe blog textul următoarelor 4 propoziţii/fraze cu aceste instrucţiuni.
Nu îndrăzni să scotoceşti prin rafturi după cartea aceea foarte deosebită sau "intelectuală".
Dă mai leapşa departe la alţi 6 prieteni. "




Cartea pe care o avem cea mai aproape (asta pt ca tot incerc sa o citesc de ceva timp :)) ), e "Etica liderului eficient sau Conducerea bazata pe principii " de Stephen R.Covey.
Fraza e urmatoarea:
"S-ar putea ca unii sa ne dezamageasca sau sa profite de increderea noastra,considerandu-ne naivi sau creduli. Dar cei mai multi vor reusi, pur si simplu pentru ca noi credem in ei. Nu ii blocati pe multi de teama fata de cativa! Oricand presupunem ca exista bunacredinta, venita din bune motive si din siguranta interioara, facem apel la ce e bun in ceilalti.
10.Cautati mai intai sa intelegeti si apoi sa fiti intelesi. "

Leapsa la Roxi, Silviutza, Stef, S, Romeo,Dey

Peace

Am inceput sa regasesc echilibrul. Mi-a lipsit in ultima perioada , dar acum a inceput sa isi faca din nou loc in viata mea...si ma bucura asta.
Ma simt impacata cu mine insumi si cu cei din jur , ma simt bine.
Seara trecuta a fost una deosebita, petrecuta in compania unor oameni minunati cu care imi doresc sa am ocazia sa impartasesc cat mai multe experiente similare. Ne-am adunat la povesti si ne-am uitat la un film. Nu mi-am dat seama cum , dar timpul a zburat si noi nu ne mai terminam povestile...am ras, ne-am simtit bine,am dezbatut , a fost o adevarata sinergie. La un moment dat ne-am adus aminte de motivul pt care ne-am intalnit : sa vedem filmul Peaceful Warrior . La inceput am fost foarte sceptica, in sensul ca era deja 2 noaptea , noi eram obositi si vroiam sa ne uitam la un film...mare provocare. Totusi trebuie sa recunosc ca a fost o idee foarte buna (asta neinsemnand ca uni din noi nu au "atipit" :P ).
Ce mi-a transmis acest film cel mai bine? Traieste fiecare moment...nu trai in trecut, viitor, pentru un scop sau un obiectiv care crezi ca iti va aduce fericirea. Fericirea o poti avea in fiecare moment, doar sa realizezi acest lucru si sa te bucuri de ea. Traieste acum...

Asta imi doresc si eu ...sa traiesc aceste clipe care nu se vor intoarce si sa dau totul din mine pt aceste momente si sa nu astept sa mi se ideplineasca un anumit obiectiv pentru a fi fericita. Sunt fericita acum, in acest moment, scriind acest post cu laptopul in brate, intr-o camera deosebit de curata si placuta , ascultand muzica indiana.


Eu sunt acest moment


Socrates: Where are you?
Dan Millman: Here.
Socrates: What time is it?
Dan Millman: Now.
Socrates: What are you?
Dan Millman: This moment.

love hurts

It's not ok...it is just not right. I love you too much and this started to hurt. I'm tired of explaining myself all the time, tired of being the negative character in this relationship , I can't argue anymore. I feel strange , I feel like a guy that is having an affair and is always trying to find some excuses , I feel so bad, like I'm the bad person that does not care. I feel like I started to loose the time that I used to spend with you . I feel that I'm hurting you and this makes me so sad, I don't want to do that...I don't what to hurt you. And I don't know what to do...how to balance this.

I feel like I'm powerless some times ...we started to argue almost every day...this is not right... it just makes me weaker.
All the I love you’s seem so different now ...they are full with pain ...being afraid of the unknown future :(.
I'm thinking about the time when it was the other way around...you were with your work and we would not see each other so often because of that, and I was the one feeling pain and pointless ...and now it all turned around. And is even more painful cause I am the one that cause the situation ..and I don't know what to do.
I feel so stupid and so bad...nothing makes sense now...what is the point of getting something you want if you might loose the things you had?
Maybe sometimes you just have to say no...I don't want to loose it.
What is the secret of getting balance between professional and personal life?

Cristina, your dream job is to be President - click to make it yourself

 

Unlike some people, your dream job doesn't involve lying on the beach somewhere or being paid to take naps. No, you love to get things done and get them done right (or at least, your way). That's why your dream job is to be president! Can't you just picture it? Being in charge and making the really important decisions? Changing the world each and every day? And forget about flying coach — you've got Air Force One. We bet that sounds like heaven for a driven go-getter like you.

Of course you don't have to come in first at the polls to succeed. As long as you remember to keep asking questions and demanding change, your vision can still help make the world a better place.

P.S:a nu se interpreta nimic legate de AIESEC, e doar un test ;)

Cristina, your secret to success is to be Ambitious - click to do it yourself

 


You have high aspirations for your life and tend to expect the best from yourself and those around you. Because of your ambition, it's also likely that you've developed a pretty clear vision of your future and are working steadily to achieve it. Sitting back waiting for opportunities isn't your typical style. In fact, the people around you can probably spot the "can-do" attitude that glows from within you from a mile away.

Your ambition puts you in a good light in front of colleagues who probably view you as extremely resourceful and driven. They see this in you each time you make a quick decision or draft up a new plan before it's even asked for. For you, sitting around and waiting for the next project to drop from the sky is not a way of life.

Amalgam de ganduri

           Ce ciudat ma simt....e o combinatie de bucurie si tristete care doare. Iti multumesc !!!

Sunt atat de multe lucruri care imi trec prin cap in acest moment si nu stiu cum as putea sa le aranjez...ma simt din nou doborata ...de mine. Imi e frica de mine...Gresesc...foarte tare...nu imi place sa mi se spuna asta, nu imi place sa gresesc ...dar o fac...am gresit si gresesc enorm...fata de oamenii din jurul meu si fata de mine. Ma doare asta...si ma doare si mai tare ca stiu ca nu o sa ma pot schimba dintrodata si cu siguranta nu o sa pot elimina toate lucrurile rele.
Imi cer scuze tuturor celor care le-am gresit : Steli, Ilinca, Dey, Ale, Roxi, Larisa, Victor,Diana, Emil, Anusca, Ariadna,Cips,Adriana, tata, MAMA, sora mea si tot ceilalti pe care i-am ranit sau le-am gresit. Imi dau seama doar acum ca s-a intamplat sa fac rau, cand imi doream sa fac bine. Imi dau seama ca perfectionismul e o cale sigura spre esec... imi dau seama ca nu e atat de important ca totul sa iasa cum imi doresc eu, imi dau seama cat sunt de singura...si cat de mult v-am putut indeparta...imi dau seama ce important e sa fii sincer... imi dau seama ce important e sa ai incredere in ceilalti oameni...ca nu e atat de important sa fii cel mai bun...ca lumea se comporta cu tine ca o oglinda a ceea ce faci tu...ca e greu pana ce incepi...ca e greu sa te schimbi...realizez doar acum cum ma percep cei din jur...si doare. Imi dau seama ce important e sa ii las pe oameni sa ma cunoasca ma bine...ca e ok sa fii vulnerabil in fata altora. Ce gresit e sa critici si sa le arati oamenilor tot timpul ce fac gresit sau sa ii ghidezi spre a face cum iti doresti tu(care nu e tot timpul cea mai buna solutie).
Inconstient mi-am dorit tot timpul sa fiu perfecta ...and guess what? nu sunt...si nu am cum sa fiu...si nu e bine sa fiu perfecta ...nici macar nu e ok sa imi doresc asta.

Cel mai mult imi doresc acum...sa nu uit aceste lucruri...sa imi aduc aminte ce am invatat si sa ma comport ca atare.
Doare...al dracului...chiar doare...dar stiu ca e cel mai bun lucru care mi se putea intampla...si va multumesc din suflet tuturor celor care ati contribuit la asta.



  

The "E" spirit

I'm so glad, enthusiastic and motivated by my team...I simply adore them...they are 8 wonderful persons that I got the chance to work with. How beautiful ...9 different and special persons working together at their common passion ...fascinating .
When you have something like this , you can see the synergy , sparkles and ideas mixed with passion that are flowing in the air during the hole meeting...this really motivates me , gives me energy, gives me sense ...makes me go forward and makes me want more of this .
I hope this won't come to an end ...I know that realistically speaking this euphoria disappears after a time ...but I don't want it to go ...
The "E" spirit should be something that leasts forever ...

thanks a lot guys for this feeling ...

dreams

And things started to rush. I'm feeling the pressure , I'm feeling the fear , I'm facing the unknown : What will it happen ? Were will I be ? What will I do? Am I going to do what I planed or is there something else for me ?
Sometimes in life you make a lot of planes and you see your future so clear that you can’t even imagine that it won’t happen ...and then you’re stroked with some real facts. Maybe...just maybe what you always dreamed and planed won’t happen...maybe...just maybe...there are some facts that you didn’t take into consideration (and some of them you cannot control).
Do you stop then? Are you going to make other plans just because something is getting in the way of your dreams ?


My answer is no...I’m going towards my dreams and no matter the path , I know I can reach my dreams ...I believe in myself and what I want to do.
“There are two ways of meeting difficulties: You alter the difficulties or you alter yourself to meet them.”

I want a kitten

I just love this British Shorthairs

Jung Typology Test

This is the result of the test that I took on Jung Typology Test
The Portait of the ENTJ - extroverted iNtuitive thinking judging

ENTJs are natural born leaders. They live in a world of possibilities where they see all sorts challenges to be surmounted, and they want to be the ones responsible for surmounting them. They have a drive for leadership, which is well-served by their quickness to grasp complexities, their ability to absorb a large amount of impersonal information, and their quick and decisive judgments. They are "take charge" people.

They are constantly scanning their environment for potential problems which they can turn into solutions. They generally see things from a long-range perspective, and are usually successful at identifying plans to turn problems around - especially problems of a corporate nature. ENTJs are usually successful in the business world, because they are so driven to leadership.
ENTJs love to interact with people. As Extroverts, they're energized and stimulated primarily externally. There's nothing more enjoyable and satisfying to the ENTJ than having a lively, challenging conversation. They especially respect people who are able to stand up to the ENTJ, and argue persuasively for their point of view. There aren't too many people who will do so, however, because the ENTJ is a very forceful and dynamic presence who has a tremendous amount of self-confidence and excellent verbal communication skills. Even the most confident individuals may experience moments of self-doubt when debating a point with an ENTJ.

Fieldmarshals have a strong natural urge to give structure and direction wherever they are -- to harness people in the field and to direct them to achieve distant goals.
They cannot not build organizations, and cannot not push to implement their goals. When in charge of an organization, whether in the military, business, education, or government, Fieldmarshals more than any other type desire (and generally have the ability) to visualize where the organization is going, and they seem able to communicate that vision to others. Their organizational and coordinating skills tends to be highly developed, which means that they are likely to be good at systematizing, ordering priorities, generalizing, summarizing, at marshalling evidence, and at demonstrating their ideas.
They are tireless in their devotion to their jobs and can easily block out other areas of life for the sake of their work.

Although ENTJs are not naturally tuned into other people's feelings, these individuals frequently have very strong sentimental streaks. Often these sentiments are very powerful to the ENTJ, although they will likely hide it from general knowledge, believing the feelings to be a weakness.

The ENTJ has many gifts which make it possible for them to have a great deal of personal power, if they don't forget to remain balanced in their lives. The are assertive, innovative, long-range thinkers with an excellent ability to translate theories and possibilities into solid plans of action. They are usually tremendously forceful personalities, and have the tools to accomplish whatever goals they set out for.

Steve Jobs, Al Gore, Harrison Ford,Steve Martin,Whoopi Goldberg,Napoleon, Margret Thatcher, Carl Sagan, Bill Gates, Golda Meir, Edward Teller, George Benard Shaw, and General George C. Marshall are examples of ENTJ.

The onion

The onion is a vegetable with many layers . What is the core of your onion? This is a question that I tried to answer in the last period. It’s funny cause the layers seem to be endless. You keep wondering yourself why? why? why?... and you keep on finding answers or –most probably- lots of other questions.

I can say that I started to rediscover my first layer . Rediscover, because I was so preoccupied with finding the core, that I forgot about the first layer (or you can say the wrapping). It is so interesting , my wrapping is so different from the layer that I got to (the one that I can say it is really close to the core). What is even more interesting ,is that fact that most people see only my first layer (the wrapping) and probably that is something normal.
I can say that this was the biggest “re”discovery that I’ve made and it makes me wondering but also happy. Happy because I know that they are wrong and I know that I can change that .

Why do we have so many layers ? What lays in the core of ourselves?

This was another thing that I learned in the past few weeks : every person has a beautiful core . In our essence we are all good and have the best motivations to behave like we do. What happens is that because of some : contexts, environments, history, bad examples, different experiences and all sorts of other things , the output may not be in concordance with the core…and so , our wrapping may seem ugly(even though we are not). Didn`t it ever happened to you to have the best intentions to do one thing and it came out a disaster (or others perceived it totally different )?

The biggest shift for me was related with understanding others trough this paradigm (that I just described). Now I feel different , I love everybody and I feel like I understand them. I have such a strange feeling : I’m going on the streets and I see so many strangers ,I’m looking at them and I say into my mind : “I know that you are a beautiful person that is waiting to be discovered“. I feel more tolerant and I believe in myself more.

What happens if you let go of your layers …and show the core? Well, in my opinion and from what happened to me is like this: I feel free, I feel outburst and unleashed ..I feel myself .Others are more receptive with you and you also are more fragile and exposed to different emotions. For me, talking with somebody that knows and understands me is the best way of spending my time .

So…I shall try to let go of my layers …as much as I can …I think is the best

Me ...reloaded

Hello, long time no see J . It happened a lot of stuff into my life and I promise I’ll make some time to make it up to my diary to update everything J.

Right now I just feel I want to write about my thoughts and my feelings because they are running really random and feel the need to get out.

I recently discovered lots of things about myself , starting with my readings from Covey, the D.Y.P Project , NaLDS (a leadership conference in Germany that I recently attended) and RTS (our regional conference in AIESEC).

I can say that it was the best period in my life from the point of view of discovery and improvement… and it’s still going on…

The thing that I can say that it was the most important for me, was to realize what motivates me and makes me happy. And I came to this : first is my beloved (to whom I can thank every day for everything that he is and does) , second and really important,is my contribution to others development . I analyzed all my past and the steps that I did and it was there…without a name …I did volunteer work in different organizations , I did trainings, coaching, projects and all this made me happy. Not for demonstrating anything (how some may thing), because except learning I didn’t got something else , but for the feeling of contributing to others development. Help others : smaller than you , equally or even bigger than you to go one step ahead. I spent nights without much sleep, I woke up motivated and ready for action and spent my days with passion when it came to develop others.

The way that I love best to do it is by training. It is just an indescribably feeling : preparing the session, wake up in that morning , the feelings and the bits of my heart before delivery and the amazing energy and motivation that I get during the training. The best fulfillment feeling for me is the one after a successful training session that I held. It just gives me wings. When I can see that my training had an impact and the participants feel they learned a lot from it makes me happy. This is training for me.

For the next year I choose to run for Projects Vice-president in AIESEC Cluj-Napoca . I want to have this opportunity because I believe that I can contribute best to others development . I would love for AIESEC to have as much quality and impact projects as possible for the next year and I believe that is doable(with or without my) .

I said “with or without my” because I’m not so sure anymore if I’m the right person for this position. I believe in myself and I would like others around my to know me and trust in me as much as I do…

I know that I have some improvable points that I have to work on, and I already started to work on them(this will be another story that I promise to share) but is very hard to change habits or behaviors in a short time.

I also know that I’m not a very transparent person , that meaning that the core of me , remains for me and a few others. I know that maybe most of the time people can see only a wrapping (that might be good or bed) but for me, regarding my past ,is very hard to show off shell. I know that it can do me lots of good(to get out from the shell) , but I’m afraid of the hurting …I had too much…and I don’t want it anymore .

The bottom line : I love and I believe in myself , I also know that I’m not a perfect person and I know that the first impression is not the accurate one (I learned this in practice :p) so , whatever happens I’ll just follow my vision (which includes developing others ).

Binefacerile unei schimbari

Azi a fost o zi minunata pentru mine…tema generala ….binefacerile unei schimbari (schimare de care vorbeam in articolul trecut).
M-am trezit bine dispusa datorita soarelui care isi facuse aparitia intr-un mod placut (si nu innabusitor si sufocant ca de obicei) dupa o zi de ploaie. Am invatat , am citit, am pus la punct o parte din detaliile organizatorice ale proiectului meu si in jurul amiezii am primit 2 vesti minunate : prima a fost ca bunul meu coach , a avut initiativa deosebita de a sponsoriza premiile pentru participantii proiectului de care va vorbeam . Asadar…avem premii :D .
In timp ce studiam diverse materiale online despre S.Covey si cartea lui, „THE SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE”am primit a doua veste .Pe la ora 3:30 pm am primit un telefon de la o prietena buna, directoarea Centrului de Voluntariat CJ-N sa o ajut cu ceva. M-a rugat sa ma duc in locul ei la o emisiune radio pt ca la ea a intervenit o problema si nu poate merge. Asadar eram invitata la ora 5 pm la Radio Renasterea pt a vobi despre voluntariat. La inceput am zis….nici o problema…ma descurc,am sa fiu spontana,nu poate iesi nimic rau. Apoi , cu cat se apropia mai tare ora 5….ce voi spune acolo? Daca ma balbai? Daca ma blochez? Ce sa le spun oamenilor ca sa aiba si relevanta? Si o suma de alte intrebari care imi misunau mie prin cap si imi faceau mainile sa transpire. Pana la urma mi-am luat inima in dinti si am mers increzatoare : „O sa fie minunat! Doar am de vorbit despre o pasiune de a mea…ce poate fi mai usor decat atat?!” Asa ca la ora 5 trebuia sa ma intalnesc cu Ciprian Tehei,realizatorul emisiunii „Daruind vei dobandii” .Se face 5:10 , Cipri nu apare, se face 5:20…Cipri nicaieri..si intr-un final ,la 5:25 a aparut si Cipri(care aflase intre timp de schimare – ca voi fi eu la emisiune). Am facut un mic plan in 2 min ,dupa care am intrat in emisie. Nu am avut nici o emotie….totul a fost minunat(cel putin din punctul meu de vedere :P).
A urmat o discutie plina de relevanta ,cu persoana mea super draga si speciala , in care am incercat sa il sfatuiesc cum sa abordeze o problema care ii aparuse in cale. Si a fost din nou minunat pt ca am simtit ca i-am dat niste sfaturi bune si pt ca am folosit cele invatate din cartea lui Stephen Covey de care va pomeneam mai sus(despre care o sa va mai vorbesc sau citez, dar va recomand sa o cititi).
Ultimul eveniment al acestei zile (pana in acest moment :p) a fost ca am iesit cu o prietena la un suc.Nu ne mai vazusem de ceva vreme. Nu am mai fost in acel local de fitze de mult. Ce mi s-a demonstrat azi e ca… m-am schimbat. Nu imi mai placea acolo. Da….simteam o oarecare dorinta de putina nebunie din anii trecutisi o amintire placuta….dar era departe. Ma simtiam atat de detasata, parca nu eram acolo,ingnorasem total lumea, zgomotul, imprejurimile…totul. O auzeam doar pe prietena mea ….cu aceleasi povesti pe care le aveam si acum un an. Si zambeam…pentru ca o intelegeam ….si pentru ca stiam ca eu ma schimbasem…si simtiam asta.
Ma bucur ca am trait aceasta zi…si abia astept sa vina ziua de maine. M-am schimbat…m-am dezvoltat, am crescut! Sunt mandra de mine !
Si din nou…va doresc tuturor sa traiti zile minunate …in felul vostru

Un amalgam de ganduri...pline de iubire

    Se pare ca incepe sa imi placa sa scriu ... in ciuda faptului ca sunt un dezastru la asta de cand ma stiu...E frumos...chiar minunat pt ca doar gandul ca "imi doresc sa mai scriu
ceva azi pe blog" ma face sa gasesc zeci de subiecte pe care imi doresc sa le scot din mintea si sufletul meu...ma simt ca un fotograf in cautarea unor noi detalii fascinante (vorbeam cu un prieten bun - fotograf - azi, cat de minunat gasesc faptul ca vede frumusetea unui lucru simplu si obisnuit si imi raspundea ca daca la inceput te chinui sa le gasesti apoi vin ca de la sine....chiar si cand nu ai aparatul de fotografiat la tine). Asa ca azi am fost cuprinsa de un amalgam de ganduri si idei care se cer scrise .
Totusi, ce mi-a ramas cel mai bine intiparit in minte vis a vis de experientele din ultimele 2 zile (ieri si azi) e acel sentiment minunat pe care il ai atunci cand esti in preajma persoanei iubite. Cred ca nu cunosc un sentiment mai deosebit decat acela de a fi in bratele persoanei care iti aduce cea mai mare bucurie in viata...aceea de a fi iubit. It's something abouth human kind... atunci cand suntem iubiti, impartasim iubirea si iti intra in viata .... parca schimba totul...intr-un mod care probabil ca nu ti l-ai fi imaginat vreodata.
Toata ura, razvrateala si supararea pe care o aveai pentru cei din trecut care nu faceau decat sa iti fure din inima ta deschisa, parca dispar... E frumos...
Imi amintesc zilele, saptamanile, lunile , anii cand imi varam capul sub perna si plangeam de amaraciune..."Ce cruda e viata" "Ce naiva sunt""Ca idioti sunt barabatii"
"Ce perfida e lumea" "Nu mai vreau sa am incredere in nimeni"....si asta referindu-ma la foarte multe din persoanele cu care am intrat in contact.
Da..recunosc...m-am lovit de foarte multe ...cand treceam peste una si incercam sa ma ridic....mai primeam o lovitura....si tot asa...pana cand am ajuns sa nu mai pun atat de mult la suflet. Am invatat sa merg mai sigur.....am invatat ca daca esti in mediile potrivite , poti gasi oameni minunati...si am gasit ... incepand cu AIESEC-ul si multe alte schimbari petrecute in viata mea... mi-am recapatat increderea. Ajunsesem totusi in faza in care independenta ma caracteriza in tot ceea ce faceam.
Ma simtiam foarte sigura pe mine si pe ceea ce faceam....cred ca asa si-a facut loc si iubirea in inimioara si in viata mea....a venit in acel moment, acela care trebuia.
Si acum sunt recunoscatoare ca am trecut prin toate in acei ani...pt ca acum o pot aprecia cu adevarat.Acum ma pot bucura de ea .
Acum sunt sigura ca toate lucrurile au un sens ....si un scop bine definit, ca sa ajungi acolo unde iti doresti.
E minunat...simt ca am trecut la interdependenta. E cea mai frumosa schimbare care a intervenit. Eram convinsa ca eu o sa raman o independenta toata viata mea, ca nu am sa ma mai incred in nimeni si nimic, ca am sa iau deciziile de una singura tot timpul si ca nu am sa ma mai incred in nimeni decat in mine insumi. Vroiam sa fac totul
singura...imi faceam singura banii, ma duceam singura in oras , la cumparaturi, la un suc, chiar si in club, imi rezolvam toate problemele singura...si era multa siguranta in asta....dar in acelasi timp si multa singuratate...dar nu imi pasa....simtiam ca asa e cel mai bine.
Acum nu mai cred acelasi lucru. Acum se intampla altceva...fara sa vreu...totul trece la un plural (pe care incepusem sa il urasc cand il vedeam la altii)atat de natural si placut.
"A ne uni fortele" .A face totul mai bine, impreuna - atunci cand 1+1 fac mult
mai mult decat 2 , asta inseamna sinergie,complementaritate...(cel putin pt mine)
...si pe cata de siropos pare , pe atat e de real .(de retinut!!! - a trece in faza de
interdependenta nu inseamna a-ti pierde independenta)
Imi doresc sa nu dispara niciodata acest sentiment...imi doresc sa traiasca acest sentiment toti oamenii...si in special cei care m-au "lovit". Va doresc sa aveti parte de multa iubire....chiar daca e cu nabadai :P ... sau e presarata cu ceva suferinta....merita din plin,mai mult ca orice.

Cum sa faci bani fara bateie de cap

          Citeam azi un articol foarte interesant pe DaMaiDeparte despre cum sa faci 700 de euro la locul de munca ...respectiv altul de cum sa ai un job si totusi sa nu mai muncesti . Si trebuie sa recunosc ca m-a atras subiectul...
  Ideea generala “Gaseste-ti un job care sa iti placa si nu vei mai munci o zi in viata ta!” .
Mi se pare ca e o fraza pe cat de cunoscuta, pe atat de putin aplicata si totodata deosebit de eficienta la aplicare. Cunosc cateva persoane care fac acest lucru ...si e cu adevarat minunat, sunt persoanele pe care le vad tot timpul fericite ...si transmit acest lucru. Ce se intampla cu oamenii astia si cum ii recunosti ? Sunt cei pe care ii vezi la serviciu  la cele mai neobisnuite ore, cei care iti raspund cu foarte multa pasiune atunci cand  sunt intrebati cu ce se ocupa, cei care nu par stresati niciodata incercand mai mult sa gaseasca solutii , cei care resusesc sa se motiveze in continuu,cei care incearca tot timpul sa se documenteze sa se dezvolte si sa creasca.  Sunt cei care pot spune ca abia asteapta sa se trezeasca de dimineata sa mearga la lucru . Ce e foarte tare e ca tot acestia sunt cei care si castiga toti banii de care au nevoie. Imi doresc sa mi se intample si mie acelasi lucru. Si cred ca toti ne dorim asta. Ce frumos ar  fi...doar imagineaza-ti...ca toata lumea sa lucreze ceea ce ii place. Minunat...Poate e destul de greu realizabil o sa zici , dar chiar nu cred in asta, chiar  cred ca fiecare din noi ar trebui sa ne dam seama exact ce vrem sa facem, ce ne place sa facem si ce am vrea sa obtinem . Exemple de intrebari si si probleme la care m-as /te-ai putea gandi :
1. Toate lucrurile care imi aduc bucurie, satisfactie.
2. M-as gandi la modele. Cine imi place? Cine si mai ales ce ma inspira?
3. Care este misiunea mea personala? Ce sens aleg sa dau vietii mele?
4. La ce visai pe vremuri?
5. Ce te-a abatut de la vis? Orice ar fi fost, acum poti sa iti vezi visul la fel de clar? Mai are aceeasi valoare pentru tine?
6. Daca da, ce piedici te despart de el acum? Sunt reale, concrete sau numai in mintea ta? Ce ar presupune implinirea lui? (aceste intrebari sunt preluate din articol-I'm not that smart :P)
intrebarile pe care vi le-as pune eu  :
1. Care sunt principiile la care tii tu cel mai mult? Cum traiesti tu dupa aceste principii?
2.Ce te motiveaza pe tine ?(asa incat sa te faca sa te trezesti dimineata cu zambetul pe buze si sa nu vrei sa mergi sa dormi)
3.Cum ai putea imbina toate acestea in asa fel incat sa faci ceea ce ti se potriveste TIE cel mai bine? 
4.Ce inseamna pt tine succes?
5.Care este scopul tau in viata?
6.Cum iti propui sa faci ca toate aceste lucruri sa se realizeze?

“If you can dream it, you can do it!”...that's for sure ...mai greu e pana faci primul pas...
sau cum spunea coach-ul meu :  putere = potential + vointa +actiune
Asa ca ...pt cei care aveti un job care nu va place :  nu va mai plangeti ca nu rezolvati nimic. Actionati! Ganditi-va ce vreti si cum puteti ajunge acolo!!!
Pt cei care nu au inca un job...."take care to get what you like, otherwise you will be forced to like what you get" (motto-ul meu preferat)

The apprentice fever

         Citeam diverse articole despre "The Apprentice" , reality show-ul care testează tehnicile de supravieţuire ale unor concurenţi în jungla corporaţiilor din New York, si ma gandeam cat de departe a ajuns.
Candidaţii se confruntă săptămânal cu diferite provocări şi luptă pentru şansa de a deveni Ucenicul legendarului om de afaceri american, Donald Trump, şi pentru a câştiga o slujbă pe
viaţă.
Primul sezon din acest serial a avut o audienţă medie de 20 de milioane de telespectatori, iar pe final a crescut la 28 de milioane de telespectatori., cu 167 % peste audienţa NBC în prime time.
Hm...poate cifrele astea nu imi spun nimic mie sau voua ...dar daca dati un search pe google o sa va convingeti .
  Ideea acestuishow mi se pare geniala , tocmai de aceea cred ca a fost preluata in atatea tari si sub forme mai mult sau mai putin diferite.
  Criticile care i se aduc vis a vis de faptul ca in acest mod Donald Trump isi face publicitate,  personala, a imperiului Trump cat si tipicului
 american de afacerist lacom  mi se par in acelasi timp fondate dar si normale oarecum. In sensul ca...doar faptul ca i s-a permis acestui show sa ii foloseasca numele ,imaginea si brandul , sa il aiba ca invitat si suporter cerea o 
situatie de tip win-win pe masura lui. Ce sa isi doreasca mai mult decat publicitate? Doar pentru ca aparent e pusa in spatele obiectivului de a-si angaja oameni extraordinari pentru a-l  ajuta in companiile lui , nu consider ca trebuie condamnata.
  Ce imi place mie atat de mult la acest concept e ideea de a descoperi noi talente :
participantul in el insusi(fiind pus deseori in situatii limita si mai ales noi, in acest fel acesta reuseste sa se cunoasca mai bine pe sine si chiar sa-si descopere "puteri" pe care poate nu le banuia ) respectiv ...cei care urmaresc show-ul ii
descopera pe acesti oameni(urmarindu-i in actiunile si reactiile lor determinate de aceste situatii) . E interesant...se spune ca atunci cand o echipa e aflata intr-o situatie limita sau de criza ,  se declanseaza o sinergie extraordinara care determina un 
flux de idei si actiuni creative si productive  care altfel nu ar fi aparut.Frumos,nu?!
  Am incercat sa rup si eu o mica particica din aceasta filosofie ...si sa o aplic pe un mic proiectel pe care il ador . Abia astept sa scriu pe acest blog toate intamplarile si impresiile pe care le voi avea in timpul   proiectului...wish us luck .

   

un alt mod de exprimare

Si uite ca mi-am facut si eu blog...E interesant pentru ca mi se parea ca bloggingul e doar pentru oameni super inteligenti cu foarte multe experiente care stiu sa scrie (si isi doresc sa faca asta)....categorii in care nu m-am vazut niciodata. Si iata ca totusi m-am incumetat. Sa fie oare faptul ca multi din apropiatii mei au ? Sa fie pentru ca e o noua curiozitate? Sa fie pentru ca imi doresc sa ma "exprim" si eu? Hm...cel mai probabil toate la un loc.
Ce e si mai interesant e ca nu stiu ce voi scrie aici...hm...ramane de vazut....o sa incerc sa fac parte macar din categoria celor care scriu aiureli care nu intereseaza pe nimeni ( chestii despre ei in principal) dar sincere.
Un alt mod de exprimare - asa vad eu blogging-ul. Cat de sincera? Ei cred ca depinde de fiecare. Oricum isi are limitarile lui . Sunt curioasa totusi...voi ce parere aveti?
Cat de sinceri sunteti pe propriul vostru blog?